Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-29325824-20190424173157/@comment-957629-20190424184800

Ugh this persecution complex needs to stop.

Timjer wrote: I don't care about wether or not you people see CFYOW as canon in this topic I hardly even mentioned it. What I do care about is that you never let me talk things out. If I say something wrong, you hardly even give me the chance to correct myself. For the last time, you weren't the reason I closed that discussion. I didn't even see your reply until AFTER I closed it. The discussion was about the canon status the answer to which you already know.

Timjer wrote: They may not all have the same policies as you guys do, but at least they show me some respect. You are confusing respect with getting everything your own way.

Timjer wrote: But the only thing you show is constant criticism on every single tiny mistake I make. OK lets examine that. Here I am explaining why I closed a discussion. I don't see any insults there.

Here's me replying to your accusation that we "ignore the existence of the Novels" which was a deliberate lie on your part. You do realise lying about people is disrespectful right? Just clearing that up.

Oh here's me replying again about the Novels. I mean you did message me first here and I replied. I don't know how that's ignoring you but ok.

Here's another message during which I state
 * Yes you have done a lot of work, very good work 

Now that's a compliment. That's not disrespect OR insulting. Still waiting for your insults and disrespect options you said I did to you.

Here's me actually trying to reassure you about your edits on Ichibei's page and I raised your edit with the team like I promised at the time. And here I follow up on that. Then here's me trying to be jovial with you when I made a mistake about it. Notice how despite your edit being wrong I did not yell at you or tell you off? Actually tried to help.

So yeah how about all the criticism on every single mistake?? Or that lack of gratitude?

Timjer wrote: Look, I really didn't want it to come to this. But it seems like the two of us just can't get along. It saddens me, but I just don't think I can be part of a community where I clash so hard with another very active user. I have never held any ill-will towards you. As Yyp told you here none of my words to you have ever been insults. Just guiding you in the right direction. You chose to be insulted by constructive guidance. I have been nothing but polite to you.

Yes I close off-topic discussion or discussion that violate policies or discussions that start down a path of taking things personal that become disruptive. That is part of my role. Those are the rules and just because I am the only one you see enforcing them doesn't make them NOT the rules. And it doesn't make me disrespectful either. I have always responded to you and always tried to help. How you choose to perceive that is your prerogative.

Timjer wrote: So, while I'll wait for another admin to say something, I do think that I might stop helping this wiki. And my work on CFYOW summary. I'm not happy about it either, really I'm not, but it seems like we won't be able to work together. Are you holding your work to ransom? Yyp has already addressed your concerns about me in the past when you requested a ban because you didn't like my answers. He also advised you that I am merely trying to guide you. Take a break or leave, that is your prerogative. If you can't take guidance or constructive criticism or rules without it affecting you emotionally then maybe its not the place for you. I will keep following the policies and will not be emotionally manipulated into stopping. I have never done any harm to you.