User talk:SunXia

Apology and explanation
There's no easy way for me to do this, so bear with me.

For starters, I wanted to apologize for yesterday. Sleeping and calming down have given me a new perspective on things. Funny how that works.

Thing is, I suppose that my issue was that I kept taking it personally whenever you closed discussions that I was a part of. You were just doing your job (which I can imagine isn't always easy) but I took it the wrong way. Likewise, I think I should emphasize that I'm an aspie with a depression. What that means is that, as it turns out, I take criticism far harder than regular people. Now, I know that constructive criticism is a thing, really, but whenever people criticise me, I just can't help but strongly feel like they don't like what I'm doing.

...Wow, this was easier in my head.

Point is, I realize I shouldn't bear you ill will. If anything, I kinda empathize with your position here more. Plus, if it makes you feel any better, I am on antidepressants for years now, and likely for years to come.

...See, this is why I prefer to talk things out. I know you had your reasons, but stopping discussions before people can fully get things off of their chests only makes things worse IMO.

So, yeah, TL;DR is this: I'm sorry. Timjer (talk) 06:51, April 25, 2019 (UTC)


 * Just wanted to let you know I read your reply and I am touched that you were so open with me as well. Sorry for being so late to reply, as I kinda let it sink in and I didn't really know how to respond. TBH, I'm not really that good at, well, this. Honestly, I thinkt that having talked like this really helped patch things up between us.


 * PS: Just in case you don't have the wrong idea, I only mentioned my medication to build a bit of a bridge. I wasn't implying that you'd be happy I am reliant on it.Timjer (talk) 09:38, April 26, 2019 (UTC)


 * I'm fine, thanks for asking. I just had some internet problems these last few days, hence my lack of responses. Regardless, rest assured I'm not planning on giving up my work on CFYOW (or any other work on this wiki I can do). Partly because I've already put so much work into it I might as well finish it. Timjer (talk) 19:35, April 30, 2019 (UTC)

Verification
Hi there! Just wanted to verify that I am reaching out to you on Discord! Furusato (talk) 23:20, April 30, 2019 (UTC)

Yachiru Topic From Over a Year Ago
hey i didn't get notifications about replies to my thread before it closed (https://bleach.fandom.com/wiki/Thread:119400#6)

my concern is that when yachiru touches kenpachi a power emerges from the area she touched him.

even discounting translations she tells him that the power is bankai explaining it to him before he uses it the first time.

the during the fight she is seen on his shoulder (presumably) inside his head and not in the real world.

https://youtu.be/VlIfZ8TLj30?t=114

she also appears to regulate his powers with the comment about releasing to much.

again sorry for not responding while the thread was open Nailo1 (talk) 11:55, May 11, 2019 (UTC)

Unprofessional
I don't presume to know how or why you handle things in particular manners but I have to ask you to keep your fellow members of this site's Admins in check. You opened a public discussion thread (which means anyone can read it, this isn't a private Discord you can simply speak your mind thoughtlessly) and it quickly spiraled out of control when people on your board began to lobby insults for personal vendettas. You are beholden to uphold to a higher standard that is professional, welcome and civil. You have done nothing to keep your peers in check and you enable antagonism based on third parties purely on personal opinions. It is alright to disagree, but if you allow this kind of thing to transpire you are as complicit in your fellow Admins' actions as they are representative of this whole site.

I've already reported the proper authorities on this misconduct and hopefully this won't be a common trend for this site. I like to think people who find Fandom Wikias are beyond petty squabbling and grudge matches. If you have problems with people, do not leave it open like a sore wound for all people using this site to see it fester. Its unbecoming of people who manage a site of a beloved series and it reflects poorly on your reputation.

Do keep this in mind as I'll be watching more closely for future repeat offenses. The Omniscent Shadow of the Moon (talk) 07:19, May 18, 2019 (UTC)