Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-29325824-20190424173157/@comment-957629-20190424180221

Funny how you claim I attack newcomers despite having a pleasant discussion with said newcomer. Funny that. He completely understand why the discussion was closed and accepted it. You on the other hand have not.

I am not saying you are the only person to feel this way. But often people have trouble distinguishing between constructive criticism and insults. I cannot control how you perceive them and its not my fault if you take it as an insult. As any psychologist will tell you, you cannot control people and how they understand things will only result in failure. Cannot force people to change. I have never insulted you. I have maintained the position of this Wiki. A position you know to be fact. But yes lets discuss what you wrote on my page by all means.

Timjer wrote: whenever I actually ask you for more information or advice you just ignore me and close the discussion once again. Let's examine that shall we?? This shows I do not ignore you and actually reply to you. If I ignored you I would never have edited your page. And yet right there, on the history of your own page, I have edited your talk page the most. I admit I removed your insults from my page after I asked you to close the matter but sure ok, you should be allowed to insult me and my professionalism all you want even after I asked you to drop the matter.

So that was factually in correct.

Timjer wrote: You never allow anyone here to discuss anything you personally dislike Actually I closed the discussion because of an insult to the Wiki. These things usually escalate so I shut them down because that is my job. Stop making up lies to suit your narrative.

Timjer wrote: You're extremely curt to anyone new here, to the point of it bordering on abuse Now you are calling me abusive after I asked you to drop the discussion. Perhaps you don't understand what abuse means. I have only ever contacted you when you violated rules or asked me a question. Just because you do not like the answer does not constitute abuse.

Timjer wrote: I can know, I was really being pushed by your incredibly disrespectful behavior in the past.

Again, that is your problem. I am not an abusive person, the team knows I am not an abusive person, just because you perceive "Sorry we don't see the Novels as Canon" as disrespectful, doesn't mean it is. I have repeated myself many times to you on this matter. Yet every time someone new comes along you try to jump the shark again. Me and the new user have been politely conversing without him having a complete melt down over a close discussion that was bordering on agitation.

Timjer wrote: Block me and silence me all you want, but you're only going to make this wiki even more lifeless. So yeah all in all your post on my wall, after I closed the discussion was insulting me by calling me abusive and disrespectful and then insulting the Wiki as well. You offered nothing new to your posts months ago when you had another meltdown and demanded a ban. Given I closed the discussion, as I am allowed to, you violated the rules in continuing. And you violated them in a way to insult me. I have no problem if people want to discuss the Novels (lied about that too shocker) but when people start using words like "arrogant" and insulting the base here because they disagree with the Canon Policy I will shut it down because its starts becoming personal.

I have never abused you and actually stated how Grateful we were for your contributions on the New users page, funny that. You really need to grow a thicker skin. Constructive criticism is not abuse. And informing people of the rules is not abuse and stopping a conversation before it becomes heightened and angry is not abuse. You just have this martyr complex because you love CFYOW that because I am the one you see enforcing the policies you think I am persecuting you for this. I am not.

I did not shut that conversation down right away, its been open for weeks. I shut it down when agitation started to show. You are just misreading the facts with a tinted view. But by all means show me all the insults I have sent your way.